Hookups, situationships,
and the messy middle.
Fast radar. Open messaging. Private chat.
Built for the way gay dating actually behaves, without the usual surveillance and dark patterns.
Closed alpha — handpicked invites first. Day-1 focus: London gay men; trans and straight-curious users are supported too.
Built differently, on purpose.
Privacy first
We never sell your data. Ever. Your location is fuzzy by design — no one can pin you to a street corner.
Magic link auth
No passwords to forget or breach. Just your email and an 8-digit code — you're in.
Open messaging
Message first. No swipe-right gate, no fake engagement loops, no waiting around for permission.
Hookups first
Built for instant chemistry, repeat faces, and situationships before it tries to sell you date-night theatre.
No dark patterns
No fake profiles, no 'boost' manipulation, no hiding messages behind paywalls.
Gay-first, not generic
Launch density and acquisition focus on London gay men first. Trans and straight-curious users can still use the app, but the day-1 story stays focused.
Built community by community.
Sitches launches gay-first so day-one density is real, not spread thin. Other communities open in deliberate waves — each with its own space, not bolted onto someone else's.
Gay men
London first — the launch community, where the radar is densest.
Lesbian
Opening as a deliberate next wave with its own launch density.
Trans
A dedicated community space opening in a later wave.
Bi & curious
On the roadmap — activated per community as Sitches grows.
Ready to try it?
Sitches is in closed alpha — handpicked invites first. Built for fast chemistry, private chat, and the messy middle.